Art And You

In her bid to escape the mundane, she had reached a beautiful quaint town on an unnoticed Greek island. As she was sauntering around the charming little town, soaking in the beauty and peace of it all, she stopped outside a cafe noticing a pair of sad eyes of a woman staring at her from a painting; she could not help but stare back. “Do you like the painting?” a husky voice asked her breaking her concentration. She turned around to put a face to the voice and found a man in rugged light blue jeans and casual white shirt standing next to the pots of brushes and an easel. She responded with a question as she realised he was the artist who created this piece of stirring emotion, “Why are her eyes so sad?” The painter studied the inquisitor’s dewy eyes for a brief moment and then looked at his painting. After a few seconds of contemplation he demanded, “Why don’t you tell me?”

That’s the thing about art and artists, she thought. A piece of art only assures you that you are not alone in your wretchedness. It is always about your interpretation, your pain. It is always about why you feel a connection with it. Be it music, words, paintings, photographs or any other art form. The fact that she could sense the pain of the woman in the painting was only a reflection of her own misery.

She gave a knowing smile to the cute brown-eyed painter, decided not to answer this time and turned to leave.

After a few steps she paused, looked back, winked at him and said, “Efharisto.” This time he gave her a reassuring smile.

Disrupted by passion

It was time again for their late-night tête-à-tête with soft music, some wine and dim lights. What started out as a regular gossip session between two besties meeting after a long time, quickly turned into a serious conversation. She desperately needed to know her best friend’s opinion on the thought that was haunting her for quite some time now, so she finally asked, “Did I disrupt his mundane life? He seemed fine with the ordinary before I barged in. Do you think I have left him muddled up for the rest of his life?” After musing over it for what seemed like ages her friend answered with certainty, “Yes, you did; but in a good way. When you barged in, he got the emotional experience of his life… He never knew he was capable of such intensity, such passion. Now he knows the difference between living and just being alive. You, my friend, are that difference. And even if it is not forever, he is lucky to have experienced the intensity of your love.”

Lovers they were!

Like every girl in love she wondered why people said love is overrated. What she was going through was anything but overrated… What she felt was overwhelming, all-consuming! Despite all the uncertainties of their relationship (if you can call it a relationship that is), she loved what they had together. The keyword is “together”. She could write a story about every conversation they had. Every word that came out of his mouth, everything he did – from the way he smiled to the way he looked when he was upset, every touch… Everything was indestructibly etched in her mind. While she was sitting with her books in a romantic dreamy state, she could not help but recall what he had said the other day. She blushed, thought of how she felt in his arms, and then repeated that sentence in her head, “I want to go to sleep in your arms.” She felt like an idiot for not telling him that she too wanted that. If only her shy self could stay in check around him. Yes, they were in each other’s arms… Hoping against hope for a forever like that. The world gave them a zillion signals to warn them of impending separation, but lovers I tell you… And lovers they were!

Lost in him

On any other day, she would have reveled in a caffeine-loaded chatter session with her girlfriends at their regular hangout. But today was not that day. It took a little while before she noticed her friend furiously snapping her fingers in her face. She realised she had zoned out of an intense discussion. “What’s up with you today? Where are you? And what’s with the smile and blush?” her friend asked, irritated. She smiled again, wrapped her friend in a hug and said with irrational exuberance, “I think I have lost it. I will see you guys later.” On her way back home, her blush deepened. It was him. It was him again. She was thinking about what he had said on the phone last night. She was replaying that exact moment in her head over and over again where he said, “You are my darling, my life.” She wondered how her friend could ever understand this teenage-like madness if she were to explain the stupid smile. Yes, it was madness. But she was getting more and more addicted to her madly-in-love self. She was getting more and more addicted to him.

A Snapshot of Vidyanand Joshi

Vidyanand_JoshiIncredibly charismatic, this communication skills professor is like a dream come true for any student; his massive and ever-growing fan following is a proof of that. Prof. Vidyanand Joshi aka VJ is and will always be on the top of my list of favourite teachers/professors. I still remember every detail of our interactions… From the very moment he entered into the classroom for the first lecture to the day he and Gowri Ma’am came to see me at my place just before my wedding. I was super-emotional on his last day with our batch and I am glad we stayed in touch after college. He’s very gentle, incredibly courteous, totally supportive, an amazing teacher, has a great sense of humour… I can go on and on. I think he’s just amazing and it was a total privilege to be his student.

In this sizzling interview, VJ (http://www.facebook.com/vidyanand.joshi.9) reveals his first crush, talks about his favourite music, his favourite book, awesome Mondays, his love for wildlife and a lot more. Read on…

  • Give me a brief description about yourself.

I am a 36 years young, positive, cheerful motivator! A nature-lover by passion and a teacher by profession. Anything mysterious in nature excites me and fascinates me to the core! I find routine and mundane tasks boring, so I have by choice selected a self-employed career of a behavioural trainer and educator. People say I am friendly, popular, flirty, approachable and understanding. And I add by saying that I am also egoistic, judgemental, lazy, overconfident and low on risks! Let others discover who I am… So, everyone is most welcome to get a peep into who am I. But remember, only a peep allowed! Lol!

  • Describe your Sundays.

All my Sundays are working. I conduct academic lectures and workshops for people who have enrolled for executive MBA. So, it’s 10 to 7 full day work! But my Monday mornings are highly exciting; when the whole world cribs and moans about a manic Monday, I am normally off to a nice nature trail.

  • What music are you listening to at the moment?

Various genres interest me. Right now I am listening to mostly heavy metal songs on my car CD player. So, when bands like Megadeth, Slayer and Metallica are blasting their drums off, my speed takes off at a new level as well.

  • What was the last film you saw?

Kai Po Che. It’s a brilliantly directed, well-written and very naturally performed entertainer. It had a bit of everything: romance, friendships, ambitions, violence, socio-political drama and even pre-marital sex! Loved the movie… I’d give it four out of five stars.

  • What would be your dream holiday location and why?

There are many. I’d love to visit Amazon rainforest in South America, Borneo islands of Indonesia, Kalahari desert in Africa, Alaska in North America, Mt. Everest in Nepal, the Siachen Glacier on Indo-Pak border, Komodo islands near Philippines, Namdapha in Arunachal Pradesh and many many more. The reason for all these places is common: exclusive and adventurous wildlife experience. Each place has a unique wildlife offering and I am a die-hard nature-lover waiting to explore the mysteries of Mother Nature.

  • What is your favourite book? What was the last book you read?

My favourite book that I’ll recommend to everyone is – ‘Pulling your own strings’ by Dr. Wayne Dyer. It’s about understanding that life is in your own control so don’t let others rule you! Currently, I am reading a Marathi book – ‘Paakharmaya’ by Maruti Chittampalli. It’s about birds and their social behavior.

  • Tell me about your first crush.

My first crush was in the 2nd standard! Yeah, you read it correct! Sheetal was her name. We used to sit together on the same desk from 1st standard to 3rd standard. We used to share our tiffin food, play a lot, fight a lot, have long telephonic chats after school (at age 5-6). I don’t know where she is now, but I hope she too remembers me as her first crush. Lol. I hope my wife is not reading this.

  • What’s a food treat for you? What foods do you detest?

I am an emotional eater, so it is more of mood poisoning for me. A treat for me would be a large bowl full of freshly cut nice juicy fruits; I am aging, you know. Also, I can’t resist any egg preparations, gujarati snacks, pav bhaji, nutritious dals, kebabs and lots of creative sandwiches. Foods that I detest would be anything that floats in oil, has hot red gravy, is too spicy; also I don’t like sweets nowadays!

  • Do you have a bucket list?

While I believe that I have already achieved much more than what I was expecting in life, but being human, I always have that urge to want more and more. So, before I say goodbye, I wish to travel around the world and see all the animal species in the nature, want to learn some instrument like violin or guitar, learn basics of dancing and singing, want to act in a movie or a serial in a brief role, eat all the interesting cuisines around the globe, want to meet god face-to-face, want to spend each and every moment of my life with my wife and my doggies, want to say sorry to all those who are hurt because of me, want to say thank you to all those who made a great difference in my life, want to own some classic cars like Buick Roadster and Rolls Royce, want to try my hand at writing poems, want to be a mentor to millions of youngsters, want to see Van Halen and Whitesnake perform live, want to be a proud son to my parents and the list goes on and on!

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A Snapshot of Urmi Mukherjee

Tj8f6aMBues0Jw9vNB29hwAlmost ten years ago, this dynamic, fun, unapologetic, explosive, brilliantly sharp and utterly fearless diva came into my life. I am so glad she did. She is someone who made me realise it is okay to say, “Screw you, world. This is what I am. And this is what I will be!” If anything has made me love her so much, it’s her attitude about staying true to yourself and knowing the right people will love you because of it. I love and respect her for being who she is.

Miss Mukherjee, I still remember all our late night chats; yes yes, with all the details :P Of course, I won’t/can’t share what we discussed but those conversations were fun for sure. Fun in true sense, fun to the core.

This conversation unveils the Urmi I know, it reveals the other side of her. The side not many people know I believe. The sensitive and emotional side of her. Beneath that tough exterior she puts on, lies a soft and mushy centre.

In this exclusive interview, Urmi Mukherjee (http://www.facebook.com/urmuk) talks candidly and a little fiercely about her crazy experiences, her bucket list, her first crush and a lot more. Read on…

  • Give me a brief description about yourself.

I can never go brief (in description and otherwise LOL). I also have two sides to me, which one would you like me to introduce? The sober side of me is writing this. Drop by after dusk to see the other me :D I live life in extremes which of course creates serious imbalance and chaos but I don’t care and I love the drama! I thrive on family, friends and protection of nature and vulnerable elements. I am sleazily emotional in matters of the heart, but I remain unapologetic. It makes me what/who I am (good, bad or ugly). I reserve logic and willpower for worldly experiences and achievements. My motto is life dictates me to be true to my soul (irrespective of having to follow wrong over right; unethical over moral, sin over good and other such man made criterions of assessment), and I am notorious for being unpredictable, intense, stubborn, and a slave to my passions. I enjoy giving myself completely to everything I do – and that includes doing something as small as cleaning my bathroom or kitchen.

  • Describe your Sundays.

If not sulking, brooding or working, I can be found cooking, cleaning, doing laundry and dishes, catching up with friends and volunteering at a local rehab centre.

  • What music are you listening to at the moment?

Heart stops beating, Paul Van Dyk.

  • What was the last film you saw?

A blue film (joke). The Fighter.

  • What would be your dream holiday location and why?

Considering I love movement and change, my ultimate dream travel experience would see me explore every nook and corner of India through a couple months long expedition, living out of a backpack (which I have done on several occasions) and follow the local life (including customs, food, clothing, lodging, etc.) of that place for a couple days before I move on to the next destination.

  • What is your favorite book? What was the last book you read?

I am a voracious reader and harbour interest in a wide array of topics including philosophy and biographies. I am currently reading The Litigators by John Grisham. The book is special because it was gifted to me by a stranger I bumped in to at London. He turned out to be a world renowned 28 year old Mathematician from Oxford, and I baffled him demanding we never stay in touch after that day. Haa haa (Blame it on my attraction towards the extraordinary!). He never found out my name, all I disclosed was my field of work (although he told me a great deal about himself not knowing what was coming). True to my wishes, we never spoke after that meet. He signed the book, “To a lovely crazy lady!”

  • Tell me about your first crush.

I was 8, a nuisance and trouble maker in class, while he was the ideal role model student. I never did anything about it, but turns out, years later, he confessed I was his first crush too! Nothing ever happened, and we are great friends today.

  • What’s a food treat for you? What foods do you detest?

Until a year ago, I ate everything and I mean everything. Today I appreciate healthier food choices, and I prefer fixing my own meals (let me boast a bit and mention the accolades my culinary skills have garnered over the years :P). I cannot resist Chinese cuisine. I detest sugary food.

  • Do you have a bucket list?

Absolutely. I intend to own a sports car, live in a real house (not an apartment) with a vegetable patch and a little farm type set up with animals, adopt a daughter (I don’t care about marriage but soul mate I do care about), write columns, give out baking lessons, own a wellness centre, and partner up in a law firm.

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A Snapshot of Neeraj Tiwari

PhotoFunia-b88ccc_oFood and business – these are the two words that come to my mind when I think about Neeraj; his two steady lovers. It isn’t an easy task to describe a man like him. I met him in 2007 at work. We were part of the same team. He had these hilarious code words like merger and acquisition for wedding/relationships, stock split for females who were expecting and god knows what. I was quite naive back then and it took lot of networking for me to understand what he actually meant. Another patent Neeraj Tiwari dialogue, “Maal laao.” That was his way of congratulating you for absolutely anything and everything :P His charming smile, his confidence, his sense of humour, that naughty streak makes him an instantly likeable personality. What I admire the most about him or the most striking quality in him is his fierce independence. He quit his job to tread into unknown waters of entrepreneurship. And he has succeeded big-time. He never gave up; the idea of giving up irks him the most.

In this exclusive interview, Neeraj Tiwari (http://dhirubhaism.com/) talks about his first crush, his love for food & business and a lot more.

  • Give me a brief description about yourself.

I like travelling, reading books, writing and most importantly I love my dream, my business. Most of the time you can find me working; and yes like a typical Aquarian, I am an absent-minded genius (self appreciation :P).

The idea of exploring new places gives me a kick. In fact, my New Year’s Resolution is to visit/explore at least 7 places in 2013. Seven probably is not practical but I already have plans in place for four destinations (starting April).

My mantra in life is to never give up, keep walking. I firmly believe it doesn’t matter how many times you fall, what counts is, you rise every time you fall. You give up in two conditions. One, when you are down and things are going against you and second when you find something better. But either way giving up is depressing. Once you decide to do something, just do it. Believe in yourself. Give your best.

Now, let’s talk about my love for food; I have a steady affair with it and our love is quite unconditional :P I can’t cook but I can eat a lot… And a lot more.

Call me crazy, but there are two things I just can’t live without – shoes and books. I have like 16 pairs of shoes and a collection of 190+ books. I feel one should read and walk all the time.

  • What was the last film you saw?

Robot and Frank and The Dictator.

  • What kind of music do you love the most?

The kind that expresses feelings and emotions, the kind that is engaging, bewitching and hypnotizing.

  • Describe your Sundays.

On Sundays, I get more sleep. When I say more I mean I wake up around 8 am. It is the only day I actually get to be with my entire family and I love that. A regular Sunday ends with a good movie or work.

  • What would be your dream holiday location and why?

Egypt and Rome… I like ancient monuments, structures and cities… An unexplored island is also on my list perfect holidays.

  • What is your favorite book? What was the last book you read?

I have two – The 48 Law of Power and The Art of Seduction. The last one I read was – Every street is paved with Gold, by Kim Woo Choong, Founder Chairman Daewoo. I am currently reading The Black Flag.

  • Tell me about your first crush.

This memory is very close to my heart and reminds me of someone. It is funny but I did not even know her name. I still don’t. I do have a vague memory of what she looked like. I wasted three years just looking at her in college. I had a big crush on her but I never said anything. She knew I liked her all those years but I was just too shy to talk to her. My bad.

  • What’s a food treat for you? What foods do you detest?

Food treat? Get me anything from the south – idli, medu vada, dosa, uttapam with authentic coconut coriander chutney and sambar. I don’t enjoy non-vegetarian food anymore.

  • Do you have a bucket list?

Yes, I do. One thing on the list is to own a Royal Enfield and get it modified from Rajputana Customs. I would love to share the rest but it is all a little crazy and scary. From the list, I have already accomplished four things. Hopefully, next four will be achieved in coming 5-7 years. Two will take time but if it happens I will be able to say I lived my life to the fullest.

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