Let’s celebrate the joy of reading

Perfect emotions, a touching story, earthy music… The latest #Kindle commercial, shot by Cannes winning ad film maker Ram Madhvani, has it all. You totally nailed it, and gave me the best type of goosebumps. It demonstrates the journey of a reader in such a simple, yet powerful way! Let’s celebrate the joy of reading… :)


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Little things in life

It’s true what they say about little things in life… They have a power to make you euphoric! This evening I went to this lake near my place to enjoy the sunset… The moment I got down from the car a bunch of kids came running towards me… They wanted me to click a picture of them. I was not carrying my camera so I clicked it with my phone. Their expressions after seeing this photograph were out of the world! Some of them were camera shy and a little skeptical :) I gave them some candies and left after some time. While my car swiftly moved forward, they kept waving until I was out of sight. Those smiles made my day!


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Reading Dongri to Dubai

D2DWhen I watch movies, read books or listen to music, I look for some real intense emotions! Usually, fiction novels do the trick for me. Fiction books have that power… They have great characterization, gripping plot, and strong dose of emotions… That is one reason why I have never been a fan of non-fiction. Only a handful that I read had that spirit. But this non-fiction, that I am reading currently, has overwhelmed me, but in a positive way. #DongriToDubai, a gangster non-fiction, is not just another book. It offers some rarely-heard-of details of the Bombay underworld. It shocks you! It keeps you on the edge. The book chronicles the history of the Bombay mafia; in many instances it attempts to portray the human side of the notorious gangsters, leaving you in a state of perpetual wonder… In some situations, you almost feel it is okay to blame the situation than the person in question… A must-read, I say.

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Random Scribble: The “no expectations” myth

In an ideal world, in ideal relationships, the theory of ‘no expectations’ sounds great… But the problem is, our world is not an ideal one. In an ideal world there would be no pain, no extreme emotions, no crazy ideas… An ideal world would be about balance… An ideal world in one word would be ‘boring’. Our world is real… Our world has colours… Colours of love, of pain, of happiness, of sadness… So people who say they have no expectations from anybody in life are lying… We are made that way… :)

I think every relationship involves expectations, whether it’s your parents, spouse, siblings, kids, friends, colleagues… I feel we aren’t always conscious of our expectations. For example, I expect my better half to take me on a drive even after his long day at work… It might be extremely wrong on my part to expect it, but I do. That is what I am talking about. The more we learn to manage these expectations, the sweeter our relationships would be. That is how I see it… That is my point of view (as of now)… Not necessarily the truth. May be, the more I grow, the more I learn, the more I evolve, I may start thinking in a different way.

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Ajrakhpur: Keeping traditions alive

AbdulRehmaanIndia’s Kutch district of Gujarat is much more than a destination with sandy beaches and sunshine; it is an Aladdin’s cave of traditional handmade artisan crafts. Ajrakhpur, a tiny village in Kutch, is one such great place fighting to keep alive the dying art of Ajrakh, a form of block printing on cloth.

Ajrakhpur! A place that perpetuates time-honored traditions through its handiwork, a place that shuns the idea of automation, a place where people create things by hand, a place where they practice an art that has been passed down through generations.

If you admire and love Indian handicrafts, you will understand why I wanted to share this interview with Abdul Rehmaan Khatri on my blog. Rehmaan is an eight generation Ajrakh printer and one of the few left who is carrying on this tradition. His three sons have also been trained in the same craft. Read on…

  • What exactly is Ajrakh?

Ajrakh is a legacy of textile production in western India that goes back over four thousand years to the early civilizations of the Indus Valley. I can trace my roots back to a 16th century ancestor who came to India from Sindh, bringing with him the craft of Ajrakh printing. The art derives its name from the Hindi phrase ‘Aaj ke din rakh’ or keep it for the day as the process Ajrakh block printing is pretty long with each stage involving many days.

It is a laborious but intricately beautiful craft. Our (Khatri community) ancestors have been printing with Ajrakh blocks for centuries. They migrated to Dhamadka, Kutch from the Sindh region in Pakistan. Traditional Ajrakh printing continues in craft villages such as our’s (Ajrakhpur) and Dhamadka. Ajrakh block printing is a lengthy and demanding process consisting of several steps. Tradition teaches that the longer an artisan waits before beginning the next step, the more eye-catching the final print will be.  The two-week printing process results in stunning printed cloth in traditional form.

  • What is the process like?

It takes skill and patience to make Ajrakh. There are between 14-16 different stages of dyeing and printing, which takes 14-21 days to complete. The resulting cloth is pleasing to touch and jewel-like in appearance. Ajrakh prints are dominated by the use of intense patterning and jewel like colors: rich crimson and deep blue, black outlines and white accents are all obtained from natural dyes and fixed with an eco-friendly mordant, alum. The beauty of Ajrakh relies on expert manipulation of these materials for dyeing and printing. They are all bio-degradable and environment friendly.

Our main dye sources are varied: red is obtained from madder root, alizarin, sappan wood and lac; blue comes from indigo plant; yellow is from pomegranate rinds and turmeric; green is achieved by over-dyeing indigo with turmeric and pomegranate; and black is produced from scrap iron and jaggery. The use of henna, rhubarb root and tamarisk also adds to the variety of shades we produce.

For printing, we carve required design into hard wood to make the blocks, which are the essential tools for printing. These blocks are dipped sequentially into a dye bath and stamped onto the fabric with skilled precision. A seperate block is used for each colour; some fabrics may have as many as 500 block repeats in one metre of fabric.

  • Is the process completely manual?

The process of creating an Ajrakh involves no machinery; it is entirely manual. Besides it provides steady employment for local craftspeople.

  • What does the future hold for this craft?

We are now receiving recognition both nationally and internationally. The future looks promising. People are becoming more aware about the advantages of supporting sustainable fashion. Various renowned designers have already embraced eco-fashion & are working with sustainable & eco-friendly materials only.


*Ajrakh block-printed stuff is easily available at stores like Fabindia, Good Earth, Anokhi, etc. I request y’all to please support the craftsmen and buy their stuff to preserve India’s traditional handicrafts in the process.


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A Snapshot of PV Subramanyam

PV_SubramanyamThe year was 2007… It was a usual day at IRIS, my workplace. I was at my desk completely engrossed in my work. BAM! He entered the cubicle where I was working distracting me with his half/one-sided conversation in Gujarati with someone on the phone. An incurable Gujju money man, I thought. Yes, those were the first words that came to my mind when I saw Subra Sir (PV Subramanyam) for the very first time. I was right… Atleast about the incurable-money-man part :P

Fast-forward to the year 2013… Now we are having those phone conversations (in English mostly :P)… We discuss money, work, family life, work-out routine, food, sugar-addiction, travel, society, attitudes, blah, blah… The list seems endless right now. For all those conversations and so many more to come, thank you Sir.

In this exclusive tête-à-tête, the man who makes smart people richer (http://www.subramoney.com) talks about his first crush, sinful sugar cravings, health vs. wealth and a lot lot more. WARNING! Brace yourselves for some real funny bites because he is the ‘King of Sarcasm’. Also, ignore the part where he mentions future-kids-Gandhidham :P Not happening anytime SOON!

  • If you had just one word to describe yourself, what would it be?


  • When did your love affair with money start?

Must have been pretty early. My dad’s brother used to give me all his 50 paise coins (with Jawaharlal Nehru’s face on it). All that went into my piggy bank. By the time I was in Class 4, I had more than 1000 coins. I wish I’d known the magic of compounding back then!

  • Being a hard-core cyclist, what is it that you love the most about cycling?

The cold refreshing air hitting your face at 5 a.m. on a winter morning!

  • What is more important – health or wealth?

Ridiculous question. This is like asking a kid, “Who do you like more? Your mother or your father?” It’s a stupid question and should be banned forever.

  • Describe your Sundays.

My Sundays are typically reserved for a long run or a long ride. That’s 5 a.m. to 11 a.m. Then it is a lazy lunch…mostly at home, rarely trying to venture out.

  • What would be your dream holiday location and why?

Ideally a place with some mountains for climbing and a beach – simple Goa, Chiplun, Kovalam types.

I would also love to go tiger watching (preferably alone).

  • What is your favorite book? What was the last book you read?

No favorites. The last book I read was The Crisil Story; I did not like it at all.

  • What is your food heaven and hell?

Anything healthy is heaven. I am trying to go vegan and reduce white sugar usage. Unsuccessful battle so far.

  • Tell me about your first crush.

Orange crush! Mom must have made it for me… :P

  • If you were a biscuit, which would you be?

Bourbon. It’s poison. Eat 200 at a time and you will die. Guaranteed.

  • If I came to your home and looked inside the refrigerator, what would I find?

Vegetables, milk, water bottle for running, tons of daals, grains, etc.

  • Do you have a bucket list?

Naa. If I want something, I get it. Nowadays the things I love are illegal, immoral or fattening. So I refuse to think about those things. But yes looking for loads of grandchildren, including two at Gandhidham ;)


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Astrology: The Height of Ridiculousness

Is astrology a shit-load of crap? Don’t get me started. It is plain delusional. According to RationalWiki, the scientific view, in the most candid form, is that astrology is a load of ancient nonsense that is, these days, perpetrated by ignorant fools or those wishing to exploit others. “It is, for lack of a better word, crap.”

I couldn’t agree more. Astrologers simply thrive on the basics of human psychology – the need to know or the curiosity to figure out what future holds for us. They master the art of exploiting human psychology. At best, they are emotional manipulators. Please enlighten me, how can a chunk of rock, dirt or gas influence our lives?

There is a logical explanation for everything sensible. But astrology does not fall in that bracket which makes it the opposite of sensible – FOOLISH!

Human psychology is these astrologers’ work field. Google the Forer effect, named after psychologist Bertram R. Forer, and you would know what exactly am I talking about. According to Wikipedia, the Forer effect is the observation that individuals will give high accuracy ratings to descriptions of their personality that supposedly are tailored specifically for them, but are in fact vague and general enough to apply to a wide range of people. “This effect can provide a partial explanation for the widespread acceptance of some beliefs and practices, such as astrology, fortune telling, graphology, and some types of personality tests.”

Last year, this local hot shot astrologer told me something really stupid about a very important event in my life! Are you thinking why exactly did I go to see him at the first place? Sorry people… I can’t share that with you. Anyway, it was such waste of time and emotions! I wanted to slap him at first but was later amused by his “predictions” and I actually laughed it off.  Bloody scamster! He shared many other irrelevant facts which only made the entire session all the more annoying.   He also suggested I should wear a particular stone to brighten my future! Thank you Mr. Fraud. My future is quite bright already and I am okay with that much brightness…

What bothered me the most was his clientele. People kept coming in for sessions with him. While leaving most of them had this prescription kinda thing that detailed which astrological crap they were supposed to buy from his vendor right outside his office.   Astrology is fraud. Please don’t waste your hard-earned money on losers who claim to know what your future holds for you. Ditch that freaky tarot card reader. Bid adieu to that lame palm reader (gladly). Just forget the freaking world of astrology and gypsy fortune-telling… Like forever!

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A Snapshot of Vidyanand Joshi

Vidyanand_JoshiIncredibly charismatic, this communication skills professor is like a dream come true for any student; his massive and ever-growing fan following is a proof of that. Prof. Vidyanand Joshi aka VJ is and will always be on the top of my list of favourite teachers/professors. I still remember every detail of our interactions… From the very moment he entered into the classroom for the first lecture to the day he and Gowri Ma’am came to see me at my place just before my wedding. I was super-emotional on his last day with our batch and I am glad we stayed in touch after college. He’s very gentle, incredibly courteous, totally supportive, an amazing teacher, has a great sense of humour… I can go on and on. I think he’s just amazing and it was a total privilege to be his student.

In this sizzling interview, VJ (http://www.facebook.com/vidyanand.joshi.9) reveals his first crush, talks about his favourite music, his favourite book, awesome Mondays, his love for wildlife and a lot more. Read on…

  • Give me a brief description about yourself.

I am a 36 years young, positive, cheerful motivator! A nature-lover by passion and a teacher by profession. Anything mysterious in nature excites me and fascinates me to the core! I find routine and mundane tasks boring, so I have by choice selected a self-employed career of a behavioural trainer and educator. People say I am friendly, popular, flirty, approachable and understanding. And I add by saying that I am also egoistic, judgemental, lazy, overconfident and low on risks! Let others discover who I am… So, everyone is most welcome to get a peep into who am I. But remember, only a peep allowed! Lol!

  • Describe your Sundays.

All my Sundays are working. I conduct academic lectures and workshops for people who have enrolled for executive MBA. So, it’s 10 to 7 full day work! But my Monday mornings are highly exciting; when the whole world cribs and moans about a manic Monday, I am normally off to a nice nature trail.

  • What music are you listening to at the moment?

Various genres interest me. Right now I am listening to mostly heavy metal songs on my car CD player. So, when bands like Megadeth, Slayer and Metallica are blasting their drums off, my speed takes off at a new level as well.

  • What was the last film you saw?

Kai Po Che. It’s a brilliantly directed, well-written and very naturally performed entertainer. It had a bit of everything: romance, friendships, ambitions, violence, socio-political drama and even pre-marital sex! Loved the movie… I’d give it four out of five stars.

  • What would be your dream holiday location and why?

There are many. I’d love to visit Amazon rainforest in South America, Borneo islands of Indonesia, Kalahari desert in Africa, Alaska in North America, Mt. Everest in Nepal, the Siachen Glacier on Indo-Pak border, Komodo islands near Philippines, Namdapha in Arunachal Pradesh and many many more. The reason for all these places is common: exclusive and adventurous wildlife experience. Each place has a unique wildlife offering and I am a die-hard nature-lover waiting to explore the mysteries of Mother Nature.

  • What is your favourite book? What was the last book you read?

My favourite book that I’ll recommend to everyone is – ‘Pulling your own strings’ by Dr. Wayne Dyer. It’s about understanding that life is in your own control so don’t let others rule you! Currently, I am reading a Marathi book – ‘Paakharmaya’ by Maruti Chittampalli. It’s about birds and their social behavior.

  • Tell me about your first crush.

My first crush was in the 2nd standard! Yeah, you read it correct! Sheetal was her name. We used to sit together on the same desk from 1st standard to 3rd standard. We used to share our tiffin food, play a lot, fight a lot, have long telephonic chats after school (at age 5-6). I don’t know where she is now, but I hope she too remembers me as her first crush. Lol. I hope my wife is not reading this.

  • What’s a food treat for you? What foods do you detest?

I am an emotional eater, so it is more of mood poisoning for me. A treat for me would be a large bowl full of freshly cut nice juicy fruits; I am aging, you know. Also, I can’t resist any egg preparations, gujarati snacks, pav bhaji, nutritious dals, kebabs and lots of creative sandwiches. Foods that I detest would be anything that floats in oil, has hot red gravy, is too spicy; also I don’t like sweets nowadays!

  • Do you have a bucket list?

While I believe that I have already achieved much more than what I was expecting in life, but being human, I always have that urge to want more and more. So, before I say goodbye, I wish to travel around the world and see all the animal species in the nature, want to learn some instrument like violin or guitar, learn basics of dancing and singing, want to act in a movie or a serial in a brief role, eat all the interesting cuisines around the globe, want to meet god face-to-face, want to spend each and every moment of my life with my wife and my doggies, want to say sorry to all those who are hurt because of me, want to say thank you to all those who made a great difference in my life, want to own some classic cars like Buick Roadster and Rolls Royce, want to try my hand at writing poems, want to be a mentor to millions of youngsters, want to see Van Halen and Whitesnake perform live, want to be a proud son to my parents and the list goes on and on!


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A Snapshot of Urmi Mukherjee

Tj8f6aMBues0Jw9vNB29hwAlmost ten years ago, this dynamic, fun, unapologetic, explosive, brilliantly sharp and utterly fearless diva came into my life. I am so glad she did. She is someone who made me realise it is okay to say, “Screw you, world. This is what I am. And this is what I will be!” If anything has made me love her so much, it’s her attitude about staying true to yourself and knowing the right people will love you because of it. I love and respect her for being who she is.

Miss Mukherjee, I still remember all our late night chats; yes yes, with all the details :P Of course, I won’t/can’t share what we discussed but those conversations were fun for sure. Fun in true sense, fun to the core.

This conversation unveils the Urmi I know, it reveals the other side of her. The side not many people know I believe. The sensitive and emotional side of her. Beneath that tough exterior she puts on, lies a soft and mushy centre.

In this exclusive interview, Urmi Mukherjee (http://www.facebook.com/urmuk) talks candidly and a little fiercely about her crazy experiences, her bucket list, her first crush and a lot more. Read on…

  • Give me a brief description about yourself.

I can never go brief (in description and otherwise LOL). I also have two sides to me, which one would you like me to introduce? The sober side of me is writing this. Drop by after dusk to see the other me :D I live life in extremes which of course creates serious imbalance and chaos but I don’t care and I love the drama! I thrive on family, friends and protection of nature and vulnerable elements. I am sleazily emotional in matters of the heart, but I remain unapologetic. It makes me what/who I am (good, bad or ugly). I reserve logic and willpower for worldly experiences and achievements. My motto is life dictates me to be true to my soul (irrespective of having to follow wrong over right; unethical over moral, sin over good and other such man made criterions of assessment), and I am notorious for being unpredictable, intense, stubborn, and a slave to my passions. I enjoy giving myself completely to everything I do – and that includes doing something as small as cleaning my bathroom or kitchen.

  • Describe your Sundays.

If not sulking, brooding or working, I can be found cooking, cleaning, doing laundry and dishes, catching up with friends and volunteering at a local rehab centre.

  • What music are you listening to at the moment?

Heart stops beating, Paul Van Dyk.

  • What was the last film you saw?

A blue film (joke). The Fighter.

  • What would be your dream holiday location and why?

Considering I love movement and change, my ultimate dream travel experience would see me explore every nook and corner of India through a couple months long expedition, living out of a backpack (which I have done on several occasions) and follow the local life (including customs, food, clothing, lodging, etc.) of that place for a couple days before I move on to the next destination.

  • What is your favorite book? What was the last book you read?

I am a voracious reader and harbour interest in a wide array of topics including philosophy and biographies. I am currently reading The Litigators by John Grisham. The book is special because it was gifted to me by a stranger I bumped in to at London. He turned out to be a world renowned 28 year old Mathematician from Oxford, and I baffled him demanding we never stay in touch after that day. Haa haa (Blame it on my attraction towards the extraordinary!). He never found out my name, all I disclosed was my field of work (although he told me a great deal about himself not knowing what was coming). True to my wishes, we never spoke after that meet. He signed the book, “To a lovely crazy lady!”

  • Tell me about your first crush.

I was 8, a nuisance and trouble maker in class, while he was the ideal role model student. I never did anything about it, but turns out, years later, he confessed I was his first crush too! Nothing ever happened, and we are great friends today.

  • What’s a food treat for you? What foods do you detest?

Until a year ago, I ate everything and I mean everything. Today I appreciate healthier food choices, and I prefer fixing my own meals (let me boast a bit and mention the accolades my culinary skills have garnered over the years :P). I cannot resist Chinese cuisine. I detest sugary food.

  • Do you have a bucket list?

Absolutely. I intend to own a sports car, live in a real house (not an apartment) with a vegetable patch and a little farm type set up with animals, adopt a daughter (I don’t care about marriage but soul mate I do care about), write columns, give out baking lessons, own a wellness centre, and partner up in a law firm.


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